Today’s catch phrase is:

Study your flock.

I’m a people watcher. Always have been. Thankfully for others, I don’t stare people down like I did as a child. 🙂 But now I just enjoy observing. I’m one of those who doesn’t like to have my back toward people at a restaurant or public place. There is so much to learn by watching and listening! I enjoy trying to figure out personalities and character aspects without even saying a word to people.

And so it is in ministry. In order to minister effectively, we have to know the people who we are called to serve. Some folks are naturally more readable than others, and some take longer to get to know. That’s ok! Just try.

Over time I’ve come up with a {by no means exhaustive} list of things that I like to know about people. These things help me pray for them more knowledgeably and reach out to them in meaningful ways. I’ve also been so thankful for how God brings personal details to mind when I ask Him, “How can I be a blessing to that person? What would mean something to them?” It’s always nice when a tidbit of knowledge about that person pops into my mind and I know exactly what to do.

Things to observe/learn about people:

A few facts about their personal history- Know a few details about trials they have weathered, deaths, births, previous living locations, when they were saved, vocation, and major  life accomplishments. It helps with making conversation, and it shows people that you are genuinely interested in their lives.

Favourite foods and favourite flower- There’s nothing that says “you’re special” and “I care” quite like sending flowers or surprising someone with their favourite chocolate or tea during a difficult time of life. Also, flowers make a great hospitality or thank you gift.

Extreme dislikes or allergies- Sometimes folks’ allergies can be hard to keep up with, but they are important! It might warrant even keeping a small notebook to record them so as to avoid a blunder. For example, we have folks in our church who are highly allergic to lilies, so when we order flowers we have to be conscientious about that. And while a scented candle might seem like a great gift, it could actually make someone sick after you drop it off to them.

The allergy issue is becoming more and more prevalent in our society {we deal with it even in our own home}. It is important to know these details before fixing that gourmet dinner that your guests end up not being able to eat. Our pastor is diabetic, and our pastor’s wife is lactose intolerant. Still others are gluten intolerant and wheat free. While it may seem daunting to figure out what to fix, asking a few simple, non-invasive questions can help alleviate stress or awkward situations.

That’s my list of things that I study in our flock. Your list may look different than mine, and that’s ok! Whether you keep an actual list or a mental list, knowing your flock is important for being able to minister practically to them.

So, as you go about your duties in ministry, always be mindful to

Study your flock.

Let’s Chat: How do you study your flock? Do you keep a notebook or are you good at remembering details? What types of things would be on your list? As always, I love to hear your thoughts!